A SONNET IN LIEU OF TEARS

In Memoriam
Robert Lee Vandergriff
July 14, 1945 - July 6, 1962

I give this rose to you, my brother,

For bitter tears that would not sooner pour;

Now kindly Time has bound the weeping sore,

And twenty years have quelled the stabbing spur.

I place this flower on your grassy bed

In painful memory of your precious name:

No washing rains will quench its love-lit flame,

Nor wearing ages see its colors fled.

I give this rose in lieu of righter tears

Whose salty flood still swells my banded heart;

My grieving soul cannot, yet, its torment tell,

Though anguish eases with sweep of years,

And so, dear brother, I speak my grief in art:

Ave atque vale, frater-- brother, farewell.